Les, you were there for your wife, she hung tough and pulled through with determination and help from others. I expect the same from you.
You have put up with all of us for a long time, keeping everything running smoothly when we all acted like idiots, being a steady hand when we needed it.
It is time to focus on you for a change. None of this matters as much as your own life, and that of your family.
Get well soon, focus on what is important, come back whenever you are better, not too soon. We will still be here acting like fools.
If anyone there with the doctors, nurses, etc., gives you any crap, tell them to check their pm's at the top of the page where it says messages.