byau":e908w3kw said:
TeamoftheCentury":e908w3kw said:
Erebus":e908w3kw said:
drrew":e908w3kw said:
Incredible...and I couldn't support him any stronger. I love football, but without major changes to the game, my son will not play, and most friends of mine with kids (all sports fans, several season ticket holders) feel the same way.
Mine neither, although he's a scrawny little kid that would never make it anyways. But he won't be playing football at any level. If he really wants to, he can play flag football.
Yet you both have no problem watching the game? I can respect a parents decision, but - to me - it's an inconsistent message. "We can watch, but you can't play." (We're too important, they're not?) Maybe it's just me... but, if I'm going to tell my boys they cannot play, then I have NO business watching it and supporting it.
I have two boys playing (one High School and one in Youth football.) I think if they weren't very good, I'd probably steer them to other things because the risk might not be worth the reward at that point. But, they're passionate about the game (see Bobby Wagner's tweet) and they have enjoyed success on the field. They both have aspirations of playing college ball and I hope they make it. They're training hard year round.
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Good points, all of them, and the thing for me is there is a balance, and each family and each parent will have a balance they're comfortable with. Sure you can see an inconsistent message, that inconsistent message will show up eventually depending on where that parent finds a comfort level.
There are a lot of things that I watch (that I expect all of us to watch) that I don't think we'd get involved with. Any extreme sports? MMA? Evil Knievel? Professional wrestling and jumping off a jumbotron? Escape artists?
So I can see for some people that balance is drawn with professional football.
On to Borland: super surprised, and at the same time when you think about it, not surprised. Now I'm just wondering who's the next show to drop. Overall, you can't fault a guy for making decisions based on health and wanting to have a quality life with friends and family.
Thanks. Yes, of course I understand there are "other things" that could be lumped into this argument. I teach martial arts and have my family involved as well. So, it's something I've given a lot of thought. I don't pretend to have the all-encompassing right answer. Just, trying to make sense of this particular moment and offer some thoughts.
I agree there are things that we might watch that we wouldn't let our kids do. But, shouldn't that make us question whether we should be watching them in the first place? There are occasional crazy things that people line up to say, "We've got to see this. Are they selling tickets? Can we get in?" But, football is King in America and for all the time us fans (probably the majority of us) spend watching it, that's where my thought about consistency is targeted. I'm not saying it's easy to be consistent, but seems like a hard stance to take that one wouldn't let their kids dare play football, yet they'll go out and buy jersey's of their favorite players. Think about that. You've got to at least see the point or you won't feel the weight of that apparent conundrum. "Do as I say, but not as I do" sort of thing.
Too, understand I don't intend an insult at the poster. I'm also looking at myself. It's a general observation and consideration... and something all parents struggle with (or should) to some degree. What constitutes inappropriate entertainment? If there's such a serious risk, are we outright sick to be watching guys do this? I don't think so, but I can see why there is concern today and agree it's worth making the game safer without ruining the integrity of the sport. My question remains, though. If we're THAT concerned about it, why should we allow ourselves to support it? I think there are contours to this discussion and that there are sufficient answers to tough questions.
When we say, "Oh good for Chris Borland" yet can't wait for the draft and the season to begin, it's sort of like saying we know it's crazy to be out there, but hopefully there are guys willing to do it for my entertainment. I just can't agree with that line of thinking. I can see the logic of Bobby Wagner. It's not complicated. Yes, he gets paid. But, I do think there are those who are passionate about the game that would likely play even if the pay wasn't so great.
Do these guys play ONLY because they get paid a lot to do so? Probably not really. Some hit the big payday, but most do not. Yeah, even the lesser paid players (a higher percentage) might make more than we all might in a lifetime (or so we think), but is that enough to make it worthwhile if it's really THAT risky to one's health? They are hoping to hit the payday, perhaps, and working toward that. But, players without passion for the game usually get weeded out. It wasn't even a quick decision for Borland.
We have no way of knowing what input he got. Was it all just about the risks? Or, was there a counter-balance to all the input he was getting? Though there is a lot of research already, there's still not enough. Many former players I've spoken with think there was (or could be) a prior condition that contributed to the more serious cases. I think this is why "baseline" tests are being pushed these days. The high school one of my sons plays at requires baseline tests prior to play. There are steps in the right direction. But, it remains a "collision" sport, not merely a "contact" sport.