RolandDeschain":1f6rb8xe said:
bellingerga":1f6rb8xe said:
Quite a few people talking in gameday chat, saying how horrible this team is, and how the game was over, when it was still the first quarter.
This happens all the time. Every time the team doesn't have the lead there are the same 4 or 5 people who just implode and make gameday chat almost unbearably whiney. It's like they have 0 faith in the team.
NEVER give up on your team in the first damn quarter, especially not with this special team we have now. And come on ........ how about trying to enjoy the game with the rest of us instead of being on pins n needles and having a total meltdown at the first sign of trouble.
Of course, it's probably always going to be that way, but ya never know. Maybe today taught some people a lesson. This is not "same old seahawks."
Why not kick & temp ban 'em from the chat room? I was in my living room with a bunch of friends for the whole game, so I didn't see it, but I can guess some of the names. We have some serious children that just ruin things for the chat room when a game starts off poorly for the Seahawks.
Give me a break. Because someone is passionate about the Seahawks and is pessimistic versus optimistic does not mean they are a child. A child also doesn't suck up their pride and apologize for being a pessimist. Not everyone was raised the same way and not everyone's viewpoints toward life are the same as yours or as anyone else who calls themselves an optimist. Instead of calling people children and pointing the finger, perhaps it would be better to stop and assess the whole situation:
1) The pessimists on this board are fans, too. They are not lesser fans because their faith is shaken easily. Perhaps they get so down because they care SO much.
2) Pessimists don't rip on optimists for being positive when we are losing. If you are affected by someone else's mood, then maybe you should evaluate yourself.
3) Pessimists don't consciously CHOOSE to be pessimistic, and I am sure many of them don't like being pessimistic. I don't like being a pessimist. A lot of bad shit has happened to me (especially in my childhood) outside of football in my life, so it is a constant uphill battle to ALWAYS be optimistic. The important part is that I try. You may not see it all the time, but I do. Can't speak for others.
4) I want us to win, you want us to win -- let's leave it at that. Instead of putting a pessimist down, why not try to be encouraging or offer them understanding instead of putting them down? Aren't we all on the same team after all?
Kicking and temp banning someone for caring is ridiculous.
If people think that I'm a child, that's unfortunate. I will be the first to admit that being a pessimist can negatively influence the way people view a person. It's particularly unfortunate because I am a good person, with three children who I love very much. I have been married for 8 years, and I spend any and all free time I have with my children, to make sure they are better people and have a life I didn't when I was younger. I can admit I have faults, but I'm not afraid to admit them and I'm also not afraid to face them.
I'll be back next week, too, and I'll take another step toward trying to be more positive -- but if I slip, that's okay, too -- and the only person that needs to matter to in the end is me.
The other unfortunate thing is that, while I'm a pessimist and I get slammed for it -- I care for everyone on this board -- even you, Roland, though we tend to clash every now and again -- and I view everyone as "friends" of sorts; because I cherish this community and it is a large reason I spend a lot of my time posting here.