Narcissist PD Jerry Jones would appeal to a Narcissist PD coach, and they would understand each other.
Trouble is finding one of those in a coach these days. Vast majority of good coaches are just decent guys, teachers, leaders, at their core, in order to have success.
The other type of coach would be someone who has the near-narcissist strength of ego and belief in themselves, and feels they just need a shot, and have calculated that putting up with Jerruh would be worth it. Or a recycled has-been, desperate for another shot. But they'll have to convince Jerruh, who will no doubt be pursuing whatever latest shiny object has the attention of NFL self-declared thought leaders this month.
I would say, how about Mike Leach, but I don't think Leach and Jones would work.
Can't at all see Chris Peterson in that role. My guess... we'd be talking personalities like Steve Spurrier (of a decade ago). Except Spurrier didn't do well coaching for Redskins owner Dan Snyder. Someone like Jon Gruden could probably survive and thrive in the Dallas environment, for a time anyway, and he'd probably find a way to win enough to stick around a few years, while compiling a Jason-Garrett-like record. Moot point as he's under contract with the Raiders.