I was beaten like this and worse, that looks like it may be a willow branch or a cherry switch. See, the willow wraps around and.. Anyway. I grew up in the PNW. I don't understand how anyone that grows up in a hostile war zone would want their kids to grow up in the same environment. All it did was hinder me growing into adulthood. If you can't win an argument with a 4 year old, without resorting to violence and intimidation, then you sir, or madam, are a dumb-ass. a spanking, on the butt is not abuse. That sh** there is abuse. Period. No matter where you grew up or your towns perception.