Overblown.
Being from a military family and divorced parents and having moved around my whole childhood, I've seen people get jumped for being the wrong color of skin in a certain area.
I've seen a gay guy get jumped by two girls at a club, and when he pushed one of them down, and broke her wrist, he got arrested.
Everday you read about police brutality. You get attacked by over aggressive police, and you try to naturally defend yourself, police then have the right to apparently kill you.
The fight between Clark and his girl is mutually exclusive, she acted out in anger and started throwing things, if anyone knows once an angry girl starts throwing things, more things will come, and legitimately if there were 3 and 5 year olds in the room, and she throwing things, my first natural reaction would to restrain her so she doesn't hurt me or any of the kids.
And I'm sure that was part of Clark's natural reaction in reason of trying to restrain her. Throwing things at him probably won't hurt as much but if one of the little kids got hit that could be much worse.
And as a married man I won't ever lay a finger on my wife intentionally. We've got into pretty heated arguments and She's hit me plenty of times when she gets mad enough usually in the arm, chest, or back. And on a separate occasion I've have restrained her with force when she started throwing anything she could grab at me. Its just the nature of protection. Am I committing domestic violence protecting myself from flying things?
But personally I do have limits when it comes to protecting myself from women, I won't fight back unless three situations occur: I'm am threatened with a fatal weapon and then struck at with said weapon, I am violently attacked in the manhood, or I am violently attacked in the face.
I feel I will protect myself in a reciprocal act of aggression in those instances from anyone, male or female. Doesn't matter. Once you intend to violently harm me, all boundaries are gone.
Fortunately, I never had to experience those instances with a female.
But if a girl bit me in my nose (violent act to my face) I've probably would have reacted violently especially if I was drunk. And you can't necessarily reason or logic. Clark was drunk.
In the end, I don't think he punched her, if he did she would have been knocked out cold in the least or suffered severe fractures to her cheek bone in the worst.
I think she bit his nose violently and in drunken reaction he either pushed or smacked (backhand) her into the lamp.
None of her injuries seem to have real malice attempt to injury behind them. If he wanted to he could have destroyed her. Her injuries occurred in a chain of drunken self-defense reaction on Clark's side. He never struck first and even realized that he may stepped over the line just a little bit when he then gathered his things and she thew an alarm clock at him and he didn't reciopricate any further aggression.
I don't feel Frank Clark is the monster many are describing him as. I feel he reacted as many of us would have if we were young, drunken, athletes.
Again, if he was truly trying to hurt her, she would be much worse. He was protecting himself and probably the little kids by restraining her, it escalated and got out of hand.
I'm not going to condemn Frank Clark for one mistake when both parties involved are equally guilty from hurting each other. Especially when the females action of abuse were intent to injure. And the males injuries to the female party seem like they were more naturally done in self-defense reaction rather than intent to injure.