SoulfishHawk":1zls9vy4 said:Being an optimist makes someone condescending? Ok then :roll:
So here's a meta conversational notion.
People who are optimists are viewed by cynics as such: "They don't see reality in front of them. They find no fault with anything because the aggregate output satisfies them."
People who are cynics are viewed by optimists as such: "Being critical of every aspect of the team doesn't make you wise or reasoned. By virtue of finding no virtue in any aspect of the team, your critiques and criticism have little weight since they are so numerous."
The difference between a skeptic and cynic is the willingness to adjust attitude and opinion as information becomes available. A skeptic will provide some or negotiate some reasonable criteria (2 Rings in 9 years?) to meet to sway their opinion. A cynic will assume bad outcomes inherently and ignore or dismiss outcomes that COULD sway a skeptic.
One of the most confusing things about this differentiation is that cynics seem incapable of seeing themselves as cynics and totally believe they are in fact skeptics despite no evidence that they have a mutable opinion pertaining to whatever team or player conversation is happening.
Also, one can be a skeptical optimist but it requires a recursive look at future optimistic leanings when presented with outcome input. Basically, "I think there will be good outcomes but I will flip my wig over bad outcomes."
One of the giveaways between a skeptic and cynic is the 'infinite gripes syndrome'. Basically some sort of criteria was met but instead of actualizing that met criteria conversationally, the cynic moves the conversation to their next gripe about the team.
"Sure, they addressed this issue, but what about THIS issue now?" Merely handwaving away success to address a failure.
Examples:
Optimist: "I feel good about our chances this season because I trust the people with agency in how the team operates."
Cynic: "I feel dour about our chances this season because I do not trust the people with agency in how the team operates"
Skeptic: "I don't know about our chances this season. There are many positive things over time that we've witnessed but there are also nascent flaws that could get in the way. I don't know if it will be a good season and am incredulous that it will be inherently but I would be delighted to see our season pan out as designed or requisite adjustments be made in season to address inherent flaws and new ones that pop up."
Optimists: Rams fans in the now getting a taste of the SB. "McVay will make the tweaks to deliver a ring in 2019 or 2020. I know this."
Cynics: Seahawks fans in the now chiding Rams fans about what their 2021 season will be like. "Even if you win a SB, your future is going to be crap because of how you got there. If you don't win a SB, you'll look really stupid for McVay et al even trying, so don't even get excited about the strides made. Every outcome for you will be crap at the end of the day."
Skeptic: I don't know if the Rams will be electric in future seasons. Here is the criteria that meets 'electric'. They have a lot of short term considerations that elevate their chances in the short term and long term considerations that might diminish them in the long term. We'll see how it plays out and I'll eat some crow if it goes against my speculation, I think the Rams will ________________
One thing that verily gets in the way of functional conversation is indulging in the meta conversation and pigeon holing those who don't wholly agree with you as an 'optimist, cynic, or credulous' and ascribing an absolute intent to the other.