HawkinNY":ifbyj31j said:
I honestly don’t understand why men who make a lot of money bother to get married. I mean if you want kids and a family go to another country and find a regular woman who isn’t in it for the money. I bet the story behind it in the public will be he’s a awful man. But his ex wife prob lied and took everything he worked hard for. That would make any man lose it.
Women are the only ones who gain from marriage. 75% of divorces are started with women. They dumb you take 3/4 of everything and get monthly payments for life. While men are basically homeless. Yea why men sign up for that is beyond me. Also prenups don’t mean $h!t anymore.
My sister is the breadwinner and has to drag her ex's carcass wherever she moves to because there's a kid involved.
Because the kid is there and shared custody, he gets a house as nice as her and pays for it. She also pays for his maid. I guess he has his own car and pays utilities. He's not expected to contribute more than being an acting teacher online ever. This will continue for eight years.
After that there will still be maintenance, I expect.
His life is, financially, cake because of the shared custody arrangement. He gets to live in some of the nicest places in the world. But he hasn't started much of his own life. Every time he tries my sister gets a new or better job. Even though his life is cake in terms of dollars I wouldn't want to be as emasculated as I imagine he feels every day.